When meeting with an estate planning attorney, some important questions to ask include:

1. How can I ensure that my assets will be distributed according to my wishes after my death?

2. How can I provide for my family in the event that I become incapacitated?

3. How can I minimize estate taxes for my beneficiaries?

4. How can I set up a trust to protect my assets and provide for my beneficiaries?

5. How can I plan for long-term care needs, and what are my options for paying for them?

6. How can I plan for the management of my assets in the event of my incapacitation or death?

7. How can I provide for my children if they are minors or have special needs?

8. How can I plan for my business succession?

9. How can I plan for charitable giving?

10. How can I review and update my estate plan as my circumstances change?

It is important to ask as many questions as possible in order to have a complete understanding of the estate planning process and options available to you.